Cover the tracks

Men have their own ways of NOT getting into trouble.
Some men who have definite control of themselves stand on their feet with having no doubt at all of getting into trouble (ie prevent rather than be killed). Some, are not reliable to what they actually believe in (ie cakap tak serupa bikin, janji manis). Some, (hoping that they would and could change), try so hard of FINDING the trouble, not to mention getting INTO it and covering all tracks that could lead to being caught - by whom? of course by their spouses/partners.
Little that they know, women can ALWAYS sense the dirt. And when I say always, knowing it when it's too late is considered in the ALWAYS statistics. But still, sometimes women just know, even without any confessions by the men - though I've never got this, but some men are not that heartless to their partners; the guilt and the need of letting their loved ones know the truth are still there. God has given them the power of wisdom, but they probably have forgotten the gift of instincts to the women.
Did you know that the stronger the relationship is, the stronger feelings/instincts that women can get?
This explains the mother instincts that our mothers have.

What I'm about to share with you is "some men" 's ways of covering the tracks from their partners/spouses.
a) always, ALWAYS delete received/sent messages to the other women. they even empty the DELETE folder - never fail this or be caught
b) get another phone and PREPAID line, and ALWAYS keep the dirty phone away from home. In most cases, they keep it at their office.
c) delete DIALED/RECEIVED call log
d) they use their OFFICE phone to call the other women.
e) this is interesting. they CHANGE the saved number to some other undoubtful names like office hq, male name, keep it creative.
f) they CHANGE the password of their emails. Nevertheless, they would still repeat subject a) on their mailbox.
g) they use work email and archive the dirty emails into one folder which has undoubtful names like a project name etc. they are so creative, kan?
h) they don't use msn or ym or gtalk. they are clever enough to know that those are traceable. so again, they use office network chatting software, like Microsoft Communicator for example. - this would only be based on colleague affairs.
i) stay back at the office, probably just to do the calling/chatting/emailing some more - tak puas kot, rindu kan?. even worse, head back to other supposedly forbidden places but giving false excuses to the partners/spouses.
j) going outstation. some even purposely set up a meeting out of town, to hook up and sleep with the other women.
k) buy new phone and new number for the other women, so that it'd be different in phone bills.
l) oh, famous one. NEVER share the phone bill with call logs with their partners/spouses
m) oh, this one is famous too. "have to settle some stuff at this office today" - on a weekend. hah!

The list goes on...based on their creativity. Of course there are more, but a) to m) are combination of stories from guys themselves and from my acknowledgement - don't ask how i get it,mkay.
i) and j) are the worse thing that could happen. Nevertheless, nothing beats kawin senyap but that's a different story.
The point of this sharing is not for the men to take note of precaution steps, but for the women to be careful.
TO those who are married, TRY to trust your spouse-just not entirely, but never trust other ladies around him.
TO those who are yet to be married, you better try NOT to trust both sides.
TO the other women, please go away!
TO unfaithful subjects, do you realize how cruel you are to the ones who love you.

The statistics of cheating spouses is high.
You've been warned, so be wiser.

I guess in this case, experience beats education.

Disclaimer : my entry has nothing to do with anyone I know. (ye ke? haha) And, flirt is considered as cheating as well.